The holidays are here. This is a very exciting time of the year for many. This is the time where families take off from work and take time to see close and distance relatives they haven't seen in awhile. This a great time to reconnect with friends as well. Let's make this holiday season even more exciting with confident holiday tips and tricks.
How to handle uninvited guest.
This happens quite often. Many family members will tend to bring a guest or two unexpectedly. The best thing to do is to stay calm and welcome them with open arms. Make a few adjustments to help them feel comfortable. Remember to always treat others the way you want to be treated. If a your son is bringing is new girlfriend around the family for the first time.... smile and try not to interrogate her. Avoid starring at the guest; that is just plan rude!
How to handle touchy subjects
Every year you have that one person in your family that love to stir up uncomfortable subjects. This year auntie wants to discuss politics. Although there isn't anything wrong with the subject. As soon as you see others getting upset or loud immediately change the conversation into something that is more positive. This will prevent negative energy and awkward silence. This is the same for football conversations.
Taking a special person on a holiday date
Aww! You found the girl that you decided you want to spend the holidays season with. Here is a couple of things you may want to keep in mind. If you were invited to a family diner let them know polite you appreciate the invite but you have other plans this year. When your with your date don't forget your manners. Avoid placing your phone on the dinner table. Having your phone on the table is simply saying "I'm waiting on an important call that is more important than you. Guys if your on your first date don't bore your date by watching or talking about football the entire time unless your date loves the subject to.
Planning your holiday dinner
If any of your family is like mind; we tend to let people know what we will bring to the family dinner. For example, grandma may bring her favorite sweet potato pie while auntie may bring her world known gumbo. Whatever, it maybe remember to think about the people who have certain restrictions. Rather they are a vegan or a gluten free person; have something they can enjoy as well. You could simply ask if they could bring a dish that they love. This is a good time for you to try something new.
Handling lingering guest
How many of you have that one or two people that just don't know when to go home? The best way to tell them is to start throwing little signals. Start cleaning up the bar area if you now they love to drink or the dining table. Flicker the lights. If they still not getting the hint walk up to them and politely thank them for coming and walk them to the door.
Be a good guest
You have enjoyed the conversations, the food, and the time well spent with your love ones. Now is not the time to leave. This is the time to show your gratitude. Extend a helping hand. You can do so by asking if the guest would like help. Offer to take out the trash. Of course nothing replaces the words "thank you" so, make sure you still say it!. The host should never feel drained or helpless after a party. So, do your part and help out!